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At some point in your life best friends and boyfriends will clash. Learn the girl code and how to lay out rules. Explore what to do if your bestie and man are too friendly. Let our dating coach be your guide in the world of best friends and boyfriends.

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The Rules Of Being Friends With The Opposite Gender

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We've done several articles on the rules we should all live by as men, but today may be the most important. As guys, we all have heard about the "Guy Code," but that typically only involves rules that are trying to keep men out of trouble with women.

We wanted to look at the Male Friendship Code today even though we couldn't think of a better name than that. The MFC is a guide to how men should interact in their friendships with other guys. Follow these rules, and you'll strengthen friendships and probably be the coolest guy you know. Never talk down or insult your friends to a woman. Never say anything negative about one of your friends to a woman. And by women we mean all women including, but not limited to, the following:.

If you want to be a good friend, you should always have your buddy's back. Rumors and negative talk will always happen, but you don't need to contribute to the gossip. To be clear, it's totally acceptable to insult each other since that's how guys show that they like each other.

Not every guy is like this, but in general, if you joke around with another guy then you like them. Always make time for your friends, even when you're in a relationship. One of the cardinal rules that a lot of men break is the availability rule. Yes, you aren't going to have as much time for your guy friends when you have a girlfriend and eventually a wife, but that doesn't mean you should have no time at all for them.

This is usually a source of contention in your male-female dating relationships, so a good rule of thumb is to not give in to the euphoria of a new relationship.

Guys are all too often seduced by the thrill and excitement of a new relationship and forget that they need to pace themselves in any new dating adventures.

If you spend six days a week with someone the first month you know them, a move to a more normal dating schedule becomes more difficult after that honeymoon stage is inevitably over.

Don't consider a normal times a week dating schedule to be a disappointment, think of it as a chance to get to know your new significant other while still maintaining the rest of your social life. Wins all around!

Encourage your friend's dreams at all times, even if they're stupid. Yes, your best friend's new business idea for a grilled cheese sandwich shop or a rubber band shaped like the logo for the Denver Broncos may sound really stupid, but you should always support your friends.

When someone decides to take a leap of faith and start a business or cross a solo-sailing trip around the world off their bucket list, they're all but guaranteed to hear criticisms from people all around them.

As a friend, you should be a person they can bounce ideas off of, talk through their plans with, and help keep them excited about their dreams.

Now, to be clear, the "stupid dreams" you should support don't include them wanting to be the next Heisenberg or cheating on their spouse. Those are truly ridiculous things that should be discouraged, and if they keep pursuing them you have the right to punch them in the face. Not all dreams come to fruition, but sometimes just talking through their goals is all they need to be happy as they keep their hopes alive. And hey, sometimes a grilled cheese shop and a rubber band company actually work out, so you'll look like a great friend and might land a cushy CFO position since you were the only one encouraging them in the first place.

Like Goose and Maverick in Top Gun, you should always have each other's backs. Well, I guess we should say like Goose and Maverick until Maverick decided to be an idiot and got Goose killed. Don't kill your wingman. With that being said, this rule doesn't mean you should always try to hook up your friend with every girl you meet. It is really an explanation of how your overall relationship should look with your friends.

We already know that you shouldn't say negative things about your friends to girls, but it's OK to make fun of your friends one-on-one see: Rule 1. This rule just clarifies that if there are women around that either one of you may be interested in, you should be doing your part to make your friend look good, and he should be doing the same for you. Whether or not you end up dating any of the girls that you're being encouraging too, you'll still look infinitely better in their eyes since you won't come across as frat-boy idiots who are only concerned with making themselves look good enough to not be repulsive to women at the expense of their friends.

The Led Zeppelin Rule. You need to be a friend in Good Times, Bad Times get it? All puns aside, this is the most important rule. We all have good periods in our lives, and periods where we are nearly insufferable to be around. When your friends are at their lowest, you should be at your best. It's as simple as that. You may not realize it, but you and your friends have formed a bond that can help get each other through any situation as long as you all put forth your best effort when they need it most.

It's a gift, use it. Bonus: Greet your friend's new girlfriend with something really uplifting. Anytime you meet your friend's new girlfriend, treat her right and make your buddy look good in the process.

And remember, that new girl may eventually become the new wife and if she likes you, you'll have a better chance of your friend not breaking the availability rule see: Rule 2.

Ray is the founder of BC. As a shameless plug, he wants to remind you to check out his personal website. All you have to do is follow these 5 simple rules to every male friendship: 1. And by women we mean all women including, but not limited to, the following: Your girlfriend Their girlfriend Their ex-girlfriend s Your mother Some lady you work with Any woman If you want to be a good friend, you should always have your buddy's back.

Unless you're a bully; then you should just stop and go seek counseling. Don't be repulsive guys, ABW. Keep these rules sacred guys, and we'll all be more fun to be around.

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We've done several articles on the rules we should all live by as men, but today may be the most important. As guys, we all have heard about the "Guy Code," but that typically only involves rules that are trying to keep men out of trouble with women. We wanted to look at the Male Friendship Code today even though we couldn't think of a better name than that. The MFC is a guide to how men should interact in their friendships with other guys. Follow these rules, and you'll strengthen friendships and probably be the coolest guy you know.

It can get kind of weird sometimes, but at the end of the day, if it works out, they make amazing friends. Here's to the guys and girls out there who continue to defy the rules, and to my own guy best friend. I, like many others in their late 20s, have two distinct phases of life through which I remember watching "Friends.

There's no rulebook that tells you how to be the best best friend. But true BFFs know them—no questions asked. You keep tabs on each other's crushes and text each other very important updates. If she reads a cryptic Facebook status, sees him in the hall with another girl, or if he posts a hot selfie on IG, she knows who to hit up immediately with all the deets and screenshots.

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